By now, I was in the devaluation stage so there was no need to pretend that I was important. No false apologies that he could take back the next day. The beginning and the end. There were many other times when I tried to talk when he would just gaslight me, say if I didn’t like it I should rethink the relationship, said I was just a snowflake. There is no benefit. The behavior will not change and even worse, it will escalate.
Still, for the sake of your self esteem, do continue to fight for your needs every step of the way. You’ll be able to figure out just how little he cares if you do. We want her to be able to see her grandmother. She is now ten and, without us telling her, has a good picture of what kind of person her grandmother really is. He adores his little granddaughter and we wanted him to have the dog with him in the hospice to remember her by in his troubling times.
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