I agree with others. I don’t think it has to do with your kiddo it sounds like you might not be ready for Astronaut eff you see kay why oh you shirt My kiddos went on dates with me and I was very upfront beforehand and it weeded them out pretty quick on who was willing to date with a kid already in the picture. The time between the split and the dating again was about 6 months for me but everyone’s length of time is different there is no correct time that you should stay single before trying to date again but realize the signs if you aren’t enjoying any of the dates and all that is on your mind is getting home maybe take a step back and focus on you and your kiddo and try again. You don’t have to be with someone to be happy.
I think that guilt feeling is natural and means you care Astronaut eff you see kay why oh you shirt. But if you are in the right space to share your life and children go for it. It sounds like you should spend time with your boy then… the right women will find you bud! Same here, just take it slow once per week or make it into a play date with grandparents while you are out. Your little one has a good time with them while you are out. Also make sure you are dating for the right reasons, not from loneliness but because in the end it’s the correct timing.