I would certainly ask, why would you marry someone you don’t love? Don’t people marry for love? Are you thinking of marrying him for his wealth or position? Is this an arranged marriage? I have to wonder why you’d do this to yourself let alone another human being. If you marry this person whom you don’t love you realize that you’re going to spend the rest of your life with him and that the chances that someone else will come along that you actually love are very probable. Then you’re in a huge mess. Do you follow your heart or keep your vow? What do you do then?