As much as you love that child as your Crochet this witch needs yarn before any Hocus Pocus shirt (which is good!), legally and biologically he is not yours and saying stuff like that always puts the biological parent on the defensive against you. And it would not look good in court saying that either if you were a witness. Judges will get petty and they will put you in your place. I had my boys Stepmom harassing me by text, and I didn’t ask the judge to not allow her to contact me and on his own told her to stop contacting me. Judges love to see supportive stepparents/partners, they do like when those said stepparents try to play mommy/daddy because you’re not.