I’m gonna have to twist this a little as it was actually my buddies neighbor that told me something. Looking back it might have saved his life. My buddy was quite a player back in the day with not a whole lot of morals and definitely thought with the wrong head at times with woman and didn’t mind if married, in a relationship or whatever. He’s a good looking guy and had a couple incidents with angry boyfriends. He ran a big call center and hired mostly young girls.
Yes this was way before the ‘me too’ movement and he’d been lectured a couple times regarding sexual harassment but not enough to instigate him to change. I told him a few times he was playing with fire and one day he’ll end up in a bad situation. Well he had moved into a nice house in a decent neighborhood and was having a house warming BBQ pool party with new neighbors and friends. There was about 20/25 people there. He had previously told me how he liked one of his neighbors a lot, a young couple, no kids and had hired the wife at his company as she was in college and wanted a part time job.