All I am saying is that you shouldn’t tell some mothers their advice is negative Eagles 50th anniversary 1971 – 2021 thank you for the memories shirt, just because it is not the way you would handle it. Someone could very easily say you putting time limits is negative. “omg.. who would limit your child. If they want to nurse let them, nurse. Just saying. Katie Hallett, you make valid points, no argument there. The way some of the “advice” was worded was just aggressive. I’m all for boundaries but I know I had a definite pause when it came to stopping breastfeeding. It’s like your heart and head have trouble getting on the same page.