The answer to your question seems so obvious that I wonder if some information is missing German Shepherd if you kick me when I am down you better pray I don’t get up shirt something about the situation that keeps you from answering your own question. The answer right in front of you is that you should find another boyfriend. I don’t know whether love is all about respect and trust, but I am certain that a relationship that doesn’t have those elements is a bad relationship and is likely to collapse sooner or later. In other words, after a longer or shorter time of trying to make it work, you will find it ending anyway. Might as well get it over with. You do have to take into account that men, in general, don’t like to talk about such things, while women, in general, tend to feel that the solution to all problems is to talk about it, which sometimes drives men crazy. I say that, but I doubt that is the real problem here. I’ll tell you what it would mean if I were to act that way towards my girlfriend. It would mean that I didn’t love her at all or didn’t love her very much. Leave love out of it. It would mean that I didn’t see her as a person deserving of respect even to the elementary degree of listening to what’s bothering her. If that’s a “relationship” it’s a very poor one. He also doesn’t pay any of the rent means he is taking advantage of you. This could be the reason he hasn’t left you already.