Back in my younger days when I wore miniskirts I didn’t really care if people saw my panties that’s kinda the reason I wore a mini skirt in the first place, but the best way to avoid a wardrobe malfunction is as soon as you sit down cross your ankles and put your knees together, or cross your legs. I’m inside the drugstore buying a few female hygiene products. I’m wearing a mask and gloves and being very cautious not to get too close to people. The cashier is ringing up my things and suddenly starts coughing on them. She was not wearing a mask or gloves. I told her that she was disgusting and left the store. She starts screaming what a diva I was and that she has to spend extra time putting it away. Some people just don’t get it! Idiot!
This is what it is permitted for women to do of singing at weddings. The only musical instrument that is permissible for them is the daff, and not others such as the tabl. The difference between them is that the tabl is covered on both sides whereas the daff is open on one side and covered on the other. The drum that is covered on both sides is called the tabl, and it is not permissible, because it is a kind of musical instrument and all kinds of musical instruments are haraam, except that for which there is evidence that it is halaal, which is the daff at weddings.