I started questioning him seriously because I was tired of understanding his problem. He simply kept saying he dosen’t want to see a doctor because he is shy to talk about his problem. Like what? Really are u kidding me? He was taking no efforts to mend a serious ‘no intimacy’ issue just because he was shy? I was just not ready to accept his absurd reason and slowly it took sparks turning into arguments.
He used to accsuse me by saying I am behaving like I am hungry for sex and I am not concerned about his issues. Its been freaking 4 years I tried to empathize his shit and this is what I got to hear. I also told him to end this marriage if he wasn’t intrested in me in any way, to which he replied by saying u must have got married to me only for sex or maybe u have got someone else so u want to leave me. There was another accusation ready for me.