So I told a common friend about it, and we decided to test her stand on it. One of us asked during one gathering over dinner, if we want to know if our partners were cheating, her answer at that point was no. So we decided to not to tell her and respect their space. In between, every time we meet up, I will asked about her husband. I was thinking if she shows a slight of annoyance, I will jump out and tell her my findings. Once, another friend of mine matched with the husband, and I told her to check him out, and even had all the screenshot. I was thinking if my friend ever need to fight a divorce, I will have all the evidence for her.
Yep. He’s being nice letting you stay there and Not paying when you start working again he wants his Money. That said unless you have Savings you probably won’t be able to paying. Hence is the time where you ask him if he’ll except a extra 200–300 a month til the back rent is caught up. A good landlord would be willing to do that. They want a good tenet in their house. It’s completely up to him though be honest because your also going to have a pay your other back bills ( power, water, gas etc ) if you haven’t been paying them either.
Your child has a desk full of unfinished work because you keep her home when she isn’t sick, pull her out early so you can go somewhere, let her come late … how is she supposed to learn anything or finish anything? This is why from August to March she only moved from reading level A to C … in first grade!!! At some point, your child is going to be a functioning adult. He needs the opportunity to struggle with self-care skills in order to master them. At some point, he will need to be able to put on his own jacket and tie his own shoes. No time like the present!
My mother has always had an extremely hard time controlling her anger. Those are the strongest memories I have of my mother. Screaming at me, my sister, or my father over the simplest of things.
On top of this, she is a Jehovah’s Witness, which is a religion I highly disagree with. She believes that she is saved by Jesus and Jehovah. She truly, in her soul, thinks that she is not mentally ill and everyone around her is the sick one. On multiple occasions I have been told that I am Bi-Polar and need to be on lithium. Her behavior is sporadic, unpredictable, and extremely volatile.
Before I go deeper into that here is some back story. I was arrested for selling weed and mushrooms to my friends. I had to plea to felony charges and am serving a 3 year probation. My partner also got arrested because we lived together. We decided to leave our apartment and move in with our mothers respectively. My mom pushed and pushed it. She didn’t want me there. She made it known I was a disgrace to her and her beliefs. My grandmother was the one who cared enough to convince her to let me stay there on a very cheap rent. The hard thing about it is, it can go unseen for months. This last stretch was about 5 months or so. Recently I was beginning to feel as though I was getting into a great groove. Focusing on my health and exercising more, getting my credit in check so I can have more options in life, starting my own business. It was all ripped away.
Fast forward almost a year later, she told us at a gathering that she has separated from her husband for the past 6 months, and she was waiting for herself to be emotionally ready to share this news with us. She didn’t want to be influence by our advice prematurely. We all supported her decision. Thereafter, I did briefly told her about the dating app incidents, but she said it was not the main reason they separated. She never asked to see those screen shots and I guess it wasn’t necessary anymore. If she is the difficult type, do not take her in, she will make your life a living hell. If she has changed with old age and became more humble then it shouldn’t be a problem taking her in because her wrong doings are between her and God. It will be a good deed on your end if you take her in.