You may need to law down the Let’s get trashed shirt but I will buy this shirt and I will love this law. Assert yourself as the alpha female of your home. Do whatever it takes to get your MIL to recognize that is your home, not yours, and you get more say about who is allowed to live there, visit there than she does. You decide what visitors should do before visiting your home. Tell her you to decide who and when someone visits or does anything with your baby. Tell her if she has a problem with that she can leave. you must really be getting on their nerves, narcs love to be begged, just because they ignore your messages doesn’t mean they don’t read them and love the ego boost from them. Are you begging an insane amount? Did you expose them for what they really are? that’s the only 2 things I could think of that could make a narc want you to actually back off and leave them alone. Please don’t beg them, you’re worth so much more than that, don’t feed the monster’s egg. He’ been working there almost 35 years. I never liked him, something about him just raised my hackles. Everyone else I worked with knew how I felt about him. So I was on vacation and got an e-mail for one of the other librarians that told me he’d decided to finally retire. I was so excited. After I’d been back for a while, one of the part-time librarians asked me if I knew why he’d retired. I told her I figured he’d finally had enough and was going o be a minister somewhere. She told me that wasn’t the case, he’d been “asked to retire” so he could keep his benefits and they wouldn’t have to fire him, bring something into the record. What? He was using his library computer, at work, to watch pornography. He might have gotten away with it a while longer, but a page who was a “snitch” to the new director, telling her everything anybody did that might be in slight violation of the rules, saw him once. When they went thru his computer’s history, it was a treasure trove of dirty videos. One might have been an accident, but the volume, in with his bulletins from church, was a surprise! They kept the proof, BTW. I believed he could do such a thing, but didn’t expect him to do it at work without me catching him.
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