Was this the best way to deliver the news? I don’t know. What I know is that right after someone utters something awful, time stops. You have the space to imagine every possible scenario. Your knees buckle. You grow old. You experience every catastrophe. In your case, however, you are self-absorbed with such conversations but find yourself to be meek in approaching people for help by overreacting with self-consciousness. They play the victim card a lot. Everything they said & did to you, they turn it around as of you having said & done to them. This usually happens when they’re smearing your name to everyone, their new supply, their family, friends, etc. They thrive on attention from others & go to great lenghts to get it.
Yep. He’s being nice letting you stay there and Not paying when you start working again he wants his Money. That said unless you have Savings you probably won’t be able to paying. Hence is the time where you ask him if he’ll except a extra 200–300 a month til the back rent is caught up. A good landlord would be willing to do that. They want a good tenet in their house. It’s completely up to him though be honest because your also going to have a pay your other back bills ( power, water, gas etc ) if you haven’t been paying them either.
Your child has a desk full of unfinished work because you keep her home when she isn’t sick, pull her out early so you can go somewhere, let her come late … how is she supposed to learn anything or finish anything? This is why from August to March she only moved from reading level A to C … in first grade!!! At some point, your child is going to be a functioning adult. He needs the opportunity to struggle with self-care skills in order to master them. At some point, he will need to be able to put on his own jacket and tie his own shoes. No time like the present!
My mother has always had an extremely hard time controlling her anger. Those are the strongest memories I have of my mother. Screaming at me, my sister, or my father over the simplest of things.
On top of this, she is a Jehovah’s Witness, which is a religion I highly disagree with. She believes that she is saved by Jesus and Jehovah. She truly, in her soul, thinks that she is not mentally ill and everyone around her is the sick one. On multiple occasions I have been told that I am Bi-Polar and need to be on lithium. Her behavior is sporadic, unpredictable, and extremely volatile.
Before I go deeper into that here is some back story. I was arrested for selling weed and mushrooms to my friends. I had to plea to felony charges and am serving a 3 year probation. My partner also got arrested because we lived together. We decided to leave our apartment and move in with our mothers respectively. My mom pushed and pushed it. She didn’t want me there. She made it known I was a disgrace to her and her beliefs. My grandmother was the one who cared enough to convince her to let me stay there on a very cheap rent. The hard thing about it is, it can go unseen for months. This last stretch was about 5 months or so. Recently I was beginning to feel as though I was getting into a great groove. Focusing on my health and exercising more, getting my credit in check so I can have more options in life, starting my own business. It was all ripped away.
So way back in 94 my almost 20 year marriage ended with allegations of cheating involved. All I will say about that is there are 3 sides to every story, his, hers and the truth. And I was guilty of causing some, not all of the problems in our marriage that led to his “allegedly” cheating. So anyways, back in 94 my ex and I split, l left his sorry ass and RAN 1000 miles away from our kids, his family and our brand new “dream home” we had moved into 3 months prior. I was 40 years old running home to mom and dad’s house. He was 42 moving his 19 year old blond aerobics instructor “alleged” girlfriend in because he needed help with the “rent” she would pay.