She acts manly and wants to be the man in the relationship. She asserts herself and throws her weight around. She only does this at home though. Or if we are out on a date she does when we are alone. The way she does it is buy making decisions without consulting me. And when I confront her about whatever it is its gonna happen whether I like it or not. If I accuse her of cheating or flirting even with evidence she gets angry and yells at me. Tells me all the things she does on a daily basis. Almost as if she is giving an excuse or reason this kind of behavior is ok.
My husband and I had a certificate for a overnight stay and dinner at a local hotel that has a very nice steakhouse attached to it. We have eaten there a few times and the food has always been delicious and the service impeccable. It is expensive but also well worth it. We scheduled our stay at the hotel and I was really looking forward to it at it was out first overnight away from out son since he was born almost a year before.
There is no model of herd immunity. Our officials have realized that out best chance to come out on top of this without loosing too many lives and too much money is to try and limit the amount of seriously ill so that there wont be a HUGE strain on our health care system. So, the model is trying to spread it out over time.
So we get to our table and the waiter mentions my husband looks familiar. My husband asks him if he ever worked at the casino and he said that he had. My husband works at the casino so that’s how he knew him. The waiters whole demeanor changed after that. Gone was the super polite waiter and he was replaced by a rather cocky condescending attitude. I think it was because he realized that my husband works at the casino and while we are not hurting for money we aren’t the kind of people that go to a restaurant like we were at for our weekly Sunday dinner. So we both get appetizers, soup and a entrée.
We go through the soup and the appetizers and when he delivers out entrees he says “wow, you guys still have room, you’ve eaten a lot” with a look of disgust. Now both my husband and I are a little larger but we dont get to enjoy dinners by ourseves often so yes we were indulging. Either way it was rude to point out (besides more money the larger the tip) I ignored it though and we enjoyed our meal. At the end of it (we both had dessert too!) he comes with the bill and explains to us that the tip is based off of the total and not the amount that was over the certificate we had.
Another thing she does is she will say things like I’m glad you’re a faggot or she will say it in spanish. They’re many ways to say it I found out. She will whisper it most of the time when I’m doing something like reading or writing this right now. I guess she thinks I can’t pay attention when I’m doing something, stupid I know. She will make me look like the bad guy in front of my kids or in public to gain sympathy. Usually it’s over something like her flirting. She wants me to feel bad about being angry for her behavior. I’m supposed to allow her to do these things otherwise I’m the bad guy.