Just one day after shifting, my gf came to visit my room. The same day I got a message from him saying that the landlady doesn’t like girls to come over. I was really shocked by this and I went to talk to the landlady. She said she didn’t say anything. The words used in his message were really harsh. It was directed at the character of my gf and what hurt me the most was the fact that he knew she was my gf since 5 years. I asked him politely what was troubling him. He evaded my questions. Our mutual friend, his ex gf, told me that he might be frustrated because he is not getting any “action” . I took it as a joke and left it there. I didn’t want to believe that the person whom I had known all these years would be so baseless. I thought that with time things would get better but it never did.
On Christmas day we came by and she outlined her neighbours good traits and compared her to me at the dinnertable. Her brother cried out her name in shock and horror. I was stunned. And my now ex was told I was at my wits end with both him and her at the end of that day. It was a few months after we lost a child in SIDS, I had gotten pregnant again too quickly and was diagnosed with chronic pelvic girdle pain since I had had problems since my first child (I was 6 weeks pregnant when it set in)and never recovered after I delivered. And she compared me to a healthy woman and how she managed her home – as far as she could tell. I was grieving and happy all at once and dreading the birth in October. Which makes me wonder if I was pregnant then or if I am not remembering the conceived date as well as I thought. Anyway – she was horrible to me then and I could never forget or forgive her for that horrible Christmas day.
Now, let me take this moment to go back and explain some things. This couple is crazy. And I don’t mean just crazy in a relationship…no, no, no, I mean they are both crazy as individuals, certifiably so. But they’re honestly really cool people who just argue all the time, and sometimes try to kill each other. When it’s not the latter, it’s actually pretty funny…. So on this day, I’d been over there all day, and they’re drinking beer all day, as they usually do, and they’d been arguing all day, as they usually do, and I’m sitting in between them in their small camper, just watching them go back and forth and keeping my eye on the clock because it’s nearing 4 p.m., which means if anything crazy is going to happen with them, it’s getting within an hour of that time. I’d already peeped out that all of their episodes had taken place after 5 p.m. I made it a point not to ever stay past 4….
I was chilling at a friend couple’s house one day, I call them that because both she and he are my friends equally, and they both were getting rowdy with their drunkeness. They began to argue over the music, he wanted the volume pumped and she wanted it down so she could hear the t.v., when she snatched the phone and messed the speaker up to the point he had to fix it when he’d been able to convince her to give him the phone back, and he plugged it back up….
Now let me interject again, because this is a known fact. She indeed did kill her ex-husband. She went to prison and served her time, and this is something that has not been hided. In fact, he and she were even friends back when the murder took place. She did in fact let him know a few hours before the murder that if she went home and her husband put his hands on her again, she in fact was going to kill him. When he tells the story, he says when he woke up the next morning, (he sleeps with the t.v. on), the first thing he heard on the news was that she was arrested for murder….
I used to study in my room itself whereas he used to go outside to study or smoke up with friends. He used to come really late. He had even stopped talking to me. After a few days he sent me a message saying since he is never in the house and I have a room with a bathroom, I should pay more than half of the rent and electricity bill. Like I told before, he was really money minded and now he was dragging our friendship into it. Asking for money was his twisted way of deriving sadistic pleasure. I had seen him doing this with his ex and now he was doing it with me. I used to study under the fan the whole day as AC made me sleepy. His comments on my all day AC usage was downright disgusting.