At Pune, her tuition got over and it was time to come back but she was not ready to come back to my place because of mom. She wanted to stay at her parents for few more months before we shift to our new house (because she will get to spend lesser time with mom). To avoid fights, I again agreed to this (one more regret for me). After she came back to home, I continuously check her mobile bill and see that she’s still in talks with one of those guys but I cannot help it out (because I know this will create the scene only and she won’t change herself). If she were to change herself, she would have done it long back.
When I was maybe around 7 my sister must have been about 2 ,maybe younger, she was tiny but able to walk. It was a really nice summers evening, my dad went down to the pub with his mates which left me, my mum and her indoors. So it was just a normal night I was playing with her messing around and then we sat to have dinner and she was little so she was in her high chair. And me and my mum noticed that something was wrong she was just starring we couldn’t see what she was starring at we turned the tv off to see if she’d look away and she didn’t she Carried on and it got much worse. Her mouth locked and her eyes started rolling back, she was tiny like a dolly, she started shaking she threw up, initially my mum thought she may have been choking so she pried her jaw open so it wouldn’t lock, turns out that was the worst thing to do.
So anyway my mum obviously called the ambulance but my sister got worse and my mum was screaming so loud my neighbours came in and thought someone had gotten in only to see my sister was dying on the floor, the ambulance fast response came so quick that they blew up their engine and I’ll never forget seeing them bagging my baby sister on the floor trying to bring her back to life. Eventually they did and they took her to the nearest hospital to us but the hospital didn’t know what to do so they flew her into great ormond street hospital in London because they’re children’s specialists. They thought that she could have brain damage… and initially thought my parents could have caused it (they have never layed a hand on either of us). But anyway it turned out she had a reaction from a booster she was given 8 days before and it caused her to have a major fit.
He gave me the All Things Must Pass boxed set by George Harrison. I was thrilled ! Boxed sets weren’t cheap. I showed my parents and they didn’t seem concerned. They knew I wasn’t a moron. In return for the gift I had my Dad drive me to The French Quarter one night to go to a t-shirt shop. I bought Coach an Olivia Newton John t-shirt with COACH on the back in glitter letters. He loved it. As an adult I can totally understand why it may have raised concerns and seemed to be inappropriate to other teachers. I know minors can be groomed and never want any harm to come to their abuser, but Coach and I never even sat close enough to each other for anything to happen. He was behind his desk and I was usually in a desk pulled up to his.
I’ll tell you another time when I discovered that our lonely divorced English teacher and a really popular, handsome, rich boy were having sex at her house daily after school. In no time EVERYONE knew it and nothing was done. We also watched as another Coach flirted with a tall , blonde , married History teacher and she flirted back. Pretty soon they were kissing anyplace they could find. She left her husband and they married. He was really not that much older then we were and it was his first job coaching and teaching. He didn’t lose his job at least.
I forgive her on those incidents min 6 times (she knows about min 3 times). I constructed new home for her. I respected her career decision. I respected her decision to move to Pune for studies. I supported her decision to stay at her parents even when I didn’t like that idea. Now I’ve got transfer to another city for short period and I took her along, setup a new home for her for this short period. I’m doing everything I can do for her but she still cheats on me. To add on to this, she also says upfront that she will never support my mom in her old age. I feel bad that my mom gave away her land worth gold for me to construct her a home, I did everything I could just for her, and my wife says she won’t support my parents.