I like I’m a grumpy old woman I’m too old to fight too slow to run I’ll just shoot you and be done with it shirt… Any mom anywhere will want to set up their child’s sleeping space/bedroom/nursery. I think the dad should have some say. Mom should be able to make it how she wants for the baby with everyone’s best interest in mind. Your children won’t care what their nursery looked like, only that Dad’s always there to protect them. You’re not wrong, and as you can see from the responses the sexism is still common in this direction.