That is why I always say, never reply to a hoover. Everyone should become an expert on narcissism, so they can deal with this narc nonsense. This is surprisingly easy, because they are all the same. They do the same things to everyone all the time. The advantage this gives is that you only need to read one good book and you know all about them. Then you can deal with whatever they throw at you. The best book I found for this purpose was Prepare to be Tortured- the price you will pay for dating a narcissist.
It covers romantic relationships but also goes into narcissism generally, and narcs as bosses, colleagues, friends, so it is a good guide to how to deal with them. Importantly, it also has a checklist of traits-red flags- so you can learn to identify them, and then you can live a narc-free life. You will never regret it. One night I got off work and stayed out in the parking lot talking on the phone. I was talking to one of my co workers and during that my boyfriend who is now my ex since that night kept calling and texting.
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